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<channel><title><![CDATA[Compassionate psychotherapy - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2026 14:26:59 -0500</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Life Transformation - evidence-based]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/life-transformation-evidence-based]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/life-transformation-evidence-based#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2019 02:30:14 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/life-transformation-evidence-based</guid><description><![CDATA[Evidence-based Psychotherapy- Methods to enhance results from psychotherapy  Psychotherapy - Principles of Life TransformationBy George Hartwell M.Sc.&nbsp;The anniversary is 100 years since Sigmund Freud first published his work. The cluster of events outlined here constitute a significant paradigm shifts in the theory and practice of psychotherapy.&nbsp;In the last 40 years evidence-based psychotherapy has been established. There is now&nbsp; much more hope that permanent changes and significa [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wsite-content-title">Evidence-based Psychotherapy<br />- Methods to enhance results from psychotherapy</h2>  <div class="paragraph"><a>Psychotherapy</a> - Principles of Life Transformation<br />By George Hartwell M.Sc.<br />&nbsp;<br />The anniversary is 100 years since Sigmund Freud first published his work. The cluster of events outlined here constitute a significant paradigm shifts in the theory and practice of psychotherapy.<br />&nbsp;<br />In the last 40 years evidence-based psychotherapy has been established. There is now&nbsp; much more hope that permanent changes and significant change can occur in psychotherapy.<br />&nbsp;<br />To provide some background to these changes, let us remember that although Freud's thinking has infiltrated the mind-set of contemporary&nbsp;Western Thought, there has been much skepticism as to the therapeutic efficacy of psychoanalysis.<br />&nbsp;<br />Some observe that persons with years of analysis gain great insight into their unconscious self, but significant change in their lives or personalities is not evident. Most therapists have come to believe that insight alone does not change lives.<br />&nbsp;<br />Twenty years ago, researchers were ready to conclude that emotional learning was impossible to erase or change. Evidence seemed to show that emotion-based behaviour, even after strong efforts tried to change them, would return. Permanent change in root issues seemed out of our reach.<br />&nbsp;<br />However, even researchers can change their mind. That is what happened in 2003 when experimental evidence showed that permanent change in memory, and especially emotional learning, was possible. A new science of <strong>Memory Reconsolidation</strong> emerged and outlined the specific conditions that, when met, produce permanent changes in emotional learning.<br />&nbsp;<br />One book that outlined the details of <strong>Memory Reconsolidation</strong> with specific application to psychotherapy is <strong>Unlocking the Emotional Brain</strong> by Bruce Ecker, Robin Ticic, and Laurel Hulley (2012). The authors select existing therapies that meet or can be realigned to meet the specific conditions found in Memory Reconsolidation research.<br />&nbsp;<br />Psychotherapy now can be accountable to empirical science. There are scientific principles to guide us in dealing with deeply rooted beliefs and memories. Footnotes #1<br />&nbsp;<br />Psychotherapists can also now be confident that our efforts are not in vain. Permanent change in core issues has been proven to be possible. We can have hope in our enterprise.<br />&nbsp;<br /><font size="4">Francine Shapiro discovers EMDR</font>&nbsp;<br />Then there is the strange case of EMDR - eye movements providing highly significant relief from PTSD. Francine Shapiro discovered and began testing <strong>Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing</strong> (EMDR) in the 1980&rsquo;s. The testing showed that more people cleared from PTSD after a major disaster&nbsp; than any other therapy.<br />&nbsp;<br />PTSD is a form of emotional learning that is normally resistant to change. From the start EMDR showed great promise in healing PTSD. In the initial studies, &ldquo;84 to 90 percent of the people using EMDR-victims of rape, natural disaster, loss of a child, catastrophic illness, and other traumas-have recovered from post traumatic stress in only three sessions. Other psychological methods for healing trauma have achieved no more than a 55% success rate in seven to fifteen sessions.&rdquo; (Shapiro, EMDR, page 5, 1997.)<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;During the process of EMDR, which uses bilateral stimulation, core beliefs shift to a healthier form. Results are stable over time.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />The first book on EMDR - EMDR by Francine Shapiro and M. S. Forrest - was published in 1997. Footnote #2<br />&nbsp;<br /><font size="4">Application to Christian Inner Healing</font>&nbsp;<br />For many years I made regular use of Christian prayer therapy in psychotherapy (when it suited the client.) Although there are now several models for doing this, early models were not aligned with the principles of Memory Reconsolidation. As a result the outcomes I saw were often not consistent with permanent emotional healing.<br />&nbsp;<br />That changed when I adapted more recent models of prayer therapy, models that are aligned with the principles of Memory Reconsolidation. Now my clients reported faster and more permanent results.<br />&nbsp;<br />Previous models involved identifying sinful life patterns, confessing those patterns and praying for the end of those patterns.<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;The newer models of prayer therapy models are characterized by the practice of :<ol><li>Discover and explore the root event/memory and the emotions connected with it. This ensures the emotional learning is activated.</li><li>Discover on the belief lodged in the memory and Express it in prayer.</li><li>Take time to listen / meditate. One option is to visualize an encounter with Jesus and asking him for God&rsquo;s truth. Allow oneself to receive an epiphany - the revelation of God to you received when listening or visualizing.</li><li>Use the epiphany as the counteracting emotional truth as one would when following the guidelines of Memory Reconsolidation. This involves experiencing them alternately 3 or 4 times.</li><li>In the final step return to the original painful memory to assess if their has been significant change in the memory and the attitudes and feelings in it.</li></ol>&nbsp;<br />In this way Christian therapists who are familiar with the principles of Memory Reconsolidation align their Inner Healing or Prayer Therapy practice with principles based on research and can deliver permanent change to their clients. Memory consolidation provides evidence-based principles to be used in professional prayer therapy.<br />&nbsp;<br />What are the evidence-based principles of Life Transformation based on the our present state of knowledge?<ol><li>Deal with memories because emotional learning is embedded in our memories.</li><li>Deal with activated memories recalled with feeling not just factual memories.</li><li>Deal with the beliefs that are connected to the feelings in the memory. They create the deep foundations of our actions, attitudes and habits.</li><li>To change an activated memory and associated belief there must be another experience with an alternate perspective to initiate and bring about editing of the emotional learning.</li><li>When real change in an emotional memory has occurred it will be revealed by recalling the original memory and discovering changed perspectives.</li></ol>&nbsp;<br /><strong>In summary</strong>, psychotherapists are now able to facilitate significant emotional breakthroughs; core beliefs get permanently changed, personalities shift and we can observe an outcome that we can call <strong>Life Transformation</strong> - permanent and significant changes in behaviour and personality. This is accomplished by implementing the above principles. The exact implementation may differ within different therapeutic models and methods.<br />&nbsp;<br />Footnote #1 Even well consolidated emotional learning is labile and subject to disruption when activated. When activated, and during the destabilized state, the de-consolidated target learning can be radically unlearned. As a result, the emotional learning no longer exists in the emotional memory. This is a transformational change in the acquired memory.<br />&nbsp;This transformational change can occur to a destabilized memory if any one of the following occurs.&nbsp;<br />1. if a second experience experience occurs that is a mismatch that contradicts the original learning, or<br />2. If EMDR is used to force processing, or<br />3. In Listening Prayer, if a divine revelation occurs that contradicts the initial learning.<br />&nbsp;<br />Footnote #2&nbsp; A review of studies by NIMH found &ldquo;Seven of 10 studies reported EMDR therapy to be more rapid and/or more effective than trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy.&rdquo; <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3951033/"><u>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3951033/</u></a><br />&nbsp;<br />A 2009 review of rape treatment outcomes concluded that EMDR had efficacy. &nbsp;Vickerman, K. A.; Margolin, G. (2009).&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2773678"><u>"Rape treatment outcome research: Empirical findings and state of the literature"</u></a>.&nbsp;<em>Clinical Psychology Review</em>.&nbsp;<strong>29</strong>&nbsp;(5): 431&ndash;448.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Digital_object_identifier"><u>doi</u></a>:<a href="https://doi.org/10.1016%2Fj.cpr.2009.04.004"><u>10.1016/j.cpr.2009.04.004</u></a>.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PubMed_Central"><u>PMC</u></a>&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2773678"><u>2773678</u></a>.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PubMed_Identifier"><u>PMID</u></a>&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19442425"><u>19442425</u></a>.<br />&nbsp;<br />Both a 2005 and a 2006 meta-analysis suggested that traditional exposure therapy and EMDR have equivalent effects immediately after treatment and at follow-up. Bradley, R.; Greene, J.; Russ, E.; Dutra, L.; Westen, D. (2005). "A multidimensional meta-analysis of psychotherapy for PTSD".&nbsp;<em>The American Journal of Psychiatry</em>.&nbsp;<strong>162</strong>&nbsp;(2): 214&ndash;227.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Digital_object_identifier"><u>doi</u></a>:<a href="https://doi.org/10.1176%2Fappi.ajp.162.2.214"><u>10.1176/appi.ajp.162.2.214</u></a>.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PubMed_Identifier"><u>PMID</u></a>&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15677582"><u>15677582</u></a>.<br />&nbsp;<br />A 2017 meta-analysis of&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randomized_controlled_trials"><u>randomized controlled trials</u></a>&nbsp;in children and adolescents with PTSD found that EMDR was at least as efficacious as cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), and superior to wait list or placebo. Moreno-Alc&aacute;zar, A.; Treen, D.; Valiente-G&oacute;mez, A.; Sio-Eroles, A.; P&eacute;rez, V.; Amann, B.L.; Radua, J. (2017).&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5641384"><u>"Efficacy of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing in Children and Adolescent with Post-traumatic Stress Disorder: A Meta-Analysis of Randomized Controlled Trials"</u></a>.&nbsp;<em>Frontiers in Psychology</em>.&nbsp;<strong>8</strong>: 1750.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Digital_object_identifier"><u>doi</u></a>:<a href="https://doi.org/10.3389%2Ffpsyg.2017.01750"><u>10.3389/fpsyg.2017.01750</u></a>.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PubMed_Central"><u>PMC</u></a>&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5641384"><u>5641384</u></a>.&nbsp;<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PubMed_Identifier"><u>PMID</u></a>&nbsp;<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/29066991"><u>29066991</u></a>.<br />&nbsp;<br />Bio: George Hartwell M.Sc. Is a registered psychotherapist and one of the founders of the Life Transformation Group with office at #123 1454 Dundas Street East, Mississauga, Ontario, Canada. L4C 1L4. <a href="http://Www.Life-TransformationGroup.com"><u>Www.Life-TransformationGroup.com</u></a>, Phone 416-939-0544. Skype georgehartwell.<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)">Note: Fee schedule has changed. Fee is $150 / hour and $215 / 90 minute session with George.</span><br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Life Coaching]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/life-coaching]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/life-coaching#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2018 03:15:04 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/life-coaching</guid><description><![CDATA[What if you found a coach who is a good listening and encourager, an expert at understanding your problems and a therapist who can find the way past your struggles? That is what you get when you turn to an experienced clinician to be your life coach.Perhaps you are recovering from several traumatic events. Anna's research in resilience means you have an expert at coping with trauma without going into major depression.You may be doing well at your profession but realize that People Pleasing is ho [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">What if you found a coach who is a good listening and encourager, an expert at understanding your problems and a therapist who can find the way past your struggles? That is what you get when you turn to an experienced clinician to be your life coach.<br /><br />Perhaps you are recovering from several traumatic events. Anna's research in resilience means you have an expert at coping with trauma without going into major depression.<br /><br />You may be doing well at your profession but realize that People Pleasing is holding you back. People have found help when they turned to George fas a recognized expert with People Pleasing.<br /><br />You may feel your life is not holding together and things are falling apart. George is an expert in the 'positive' breakdown as a time of breaking free from old personality patterns. He can coach you through this process into your new more authentic self.<br /><br />Find yourself too often as the Rescuer in relationships? You are successful in your career but in intimate relationships you always connect with the wrong one. George is an expert at the Super-Responsible pattern and can be you life coach in dealing with boundary confusion and other issues.</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[In Depth Psychotherapy]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/in-depth-psychotherapy]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/in-depth-psychotherapy#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2017 16:55:25 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lifetransformationgroup.com/blog/in-depth-psychotherapy</guid><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&#8203;You don&rsquo;t ask a professional artist to repaint your home. You may have student painters do that. You hire the professional artist when you want a portrait done of yourself. Some counselling is like surface renovation when we need foundational work.&nbsp;In approaching counselling you may discover that many counsellors cooperate with you in making achievable short term&nbsp;improvements. In this way you make incremental improvements in your life. This is like painting the house [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">&nbsp;&#8203;You don&rsquo;t ask a professional artist to repaint your home. You may have student painters do that. You hire the professional artist when you want a portrait done of yourself. Some counselling is like surface renovation when we need foundational work.<br />&nbsp;<br />In approaching counselling you may discover that many counsellors cooperate with you in making achievable <span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)">short term&nbsp;</span>improvements. In this way you make incremental improvements in your life. This is like painting the house.<br />&nbsp;<br />On the other hand, you may find yourself working with a psychotherapist who is an expert in the rebuilding of your life from the ground up. They help you discover the hidden foundations of your life - core beliefs grounded in early life experience.<br /><br />Normally this kind of emotional learning is highly resistant to self-change and behavioural approaches. The target beliefs are often hidden from consciousness.&nbsp;<span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)">It is true, we find, that the heart has reasons we know not of.</span><br />&nbsp;<br />Hopefully you found a psychotherapist who helps raise to awareness the foundations of your life. This is an important step to rebuilding those foundations. Once in awareness the process of life transformation begins.<br /><br />Although these foundations resist change your psychotherapist may use methodologies that are effective in shifting our foundations. New research helps identify the modes of therapy that works for life transformation. These are outlined in a book called, "Unlocking the Emotional Brain" by Ecker, Ticic and Hulley (2012).&nbsp;<br /><br />I make use of several modes that generate significant and lasting change: Coherence Therapy, The Journey and Listening Prayer Therapy. Each of these are now enhanced based on memory reconsolidation research findings.<br />&nbsp;<br />Foundations can shape your life and keep you in a mold or you can break out of the mold and recast your life. You can rewrite the scripts that have guided your life. You can step out of the role that you were cast in by your family and choose a new role for your part in the play.&nbsp;<br />&nbsp;<br />This kind of process is liberating. When symptoms fall away you find that these changes are permanent. You are freed to live with greater freedom, creativity and joy. You may discover your inner genius that taps into the infinite resources of divine wisdom.<br />&nbsp;<br />Counselling focused on achieving short-term behavioural goals is good for the moment. Long-term it can be frustrating if the changes do not last. In my experience a lot of self-change is not easy to maintain. But key understandings of self have lead to decisions that have changed my life.<br />&nbsp;<br /><span style="color:rgb(63, 63, 63)">So establish your personal goal when looking for a counsellor. Are you looking for a coach for short-term goal achievement? Or do you need something deeper and more permanent? In that case look for a therapist skilled in the use of</span>&nbsp;in depth psychotherapy to achieve lasting change.&nbsp;<br /><br />If you would like to consult about a particular therapist you are considering you may email or phone either of our therapists at the Life Transformation Group.<br /><br />&#8203;by G. Hartwell</div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>